Having people who will challenge you when your judgment is poor is irritating, but probably a good thing, generally. No argument there.

[all she's really saying here is that if he truly believed anders was so far gone that he needed to be put down like a rabid dog, then it's weird that he still tried to fuck him.]

I wasn't there, in Kirkwall, so I don't see it that way. [he's not so special.] But... I know what we saw wasn't the best side of him, either.